Jesse Apodaca

Jesse Apodaca

December 15, 1967 - March 19, 2025

It is with heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Jesse L. Apodaca, from La Mesilla, NM.

A man whose warmth, generosity, and boundless love touched everyone he met. Jesse was a devoted husband, a proud father, a cherished grandfather, a beloved brother, and a true friend to many. He was currently employed with Buffalo Thunder Resort and Casino, where he worked for the last 13 years. A perfect job for his amazing personality.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Ernesto and Beatrice Apodaca, Paul and Rose Maestas, and his father-in-law, Jake Fresques.

He is survived by his loving wife of 27 years, Sandra Apodaca, and children Samantha, Fabian (LeaRey), LeeAndra (Brandon), Joseph (Jenasi), and Mario (Nick). His legacy lives on through his grandchildren, Lluvia, Lillie, Zayden, Joriah, and Michael, all of whom he adored. He is also survived by his mother-in-law, Gloria Fresques; siblings Paul Apodaca (Victoria), Jimmy Apodaca (Cynthia), Angela Cordova (Raynaldo), Carlos Maestas (Crystal), Johnny Maestas (Rebecca), Dina Arrietta (Mike), Lydia Apodaca, Carmela Lucero, Angela Medina, and Loyola Montoya; his brothers-in-law, Mark Fresques, and Jacob Fresques; sister-in-law Angela Fresques; and special friends Pablo Lujan, Manual Lovato, Anthony Lovato, and Phil Romero. He also leaves behind his Godson Sean Cardenas, as well as countless extended family members and dear friends.

Jesse had a heart bigger than life itself. He was always ready to lend a hand, offering kindness and generosity to everyone he encountered. He had a gift for making people laugh and lighting up any room he entered. His charisma and ability to connect with people made him a friend to all, and his love for his family was unmatched.

An incredible cook, Jesse was best known for his legendary Carne Adovada, a dish that brought his family and friends together time and time again. He was also a hardworking man, dedicated to helping others whenever they needed it. Whether tending to his flourishing garden or sharing meaningful conversations with those around him, Jesse always put others first.

Jesse’s presence will be deeply missed, but the love, laughter, and memories he gave us will remain in our hearts forever.

A Rosary will be held on Thursday, April 3, 2025, at 10:00 am at Santa Cruz De La Cañada-Holy Cross Church with Mass to follow at 11:00 a.m. Burial to follow at Holy Cross Cemetery.

Serving as Pallbearers are:

Fabian Apodaca, Jimmy Apodaca, Mark Fresques, Pablo Lujan, Manuel Lovato, Anthony Lovato, Phil Romero, and Nathaniel Salazar.

The family of Jesse Apodaca has entrusted the care of their loved one to DeVargas Funeral Home & Crematory of the beautiful Espanola Valley. 505-747-7477